How hard can it be to find love and make it work especially when an issue like religion or ethnicity is getting in the way? Should it even matter? Just like race is a big deal in America, ethnicity is a big deal in Nigeria. I know a lot of people have been breaking that barrier of ethnicity differences between the ones they choose to spend their lives with, some do not even care about the religion either.
However, there seems to be a lot to be considered when the issue of a relationship between a typical Igbo lady and a Yoruba man comes up(of course there are many instances, let us just go with this). These young people might deeply love each other and connect at a deeper level without letting these differences get in their way, but what happens when the families of these couples do not understand their need to marry outside their ethnic group? Who knows what the future might hold especially for the kids, would they be forced to choose between the multiple culture they were born into?
Just like the colour of one’s skin should not be a factor to achieving one’s dream and aspiration (love included)
Should we just simply ignore these little facts because they should not even matter in the first place since love trumps hate? Or are we to accept that some things are not going to change? Or am I alone in this thoughts?